Tems shares rare insight into her relationship red flags
Grammy-winning singer Tems has opened up about the qualities she considers essential in a romantic partner, offering fans a clearer picture of what she views as major red flags in a relationship.
In a recently circulated interview clip, the Afrobeats star spoke candidly about the importance of genuine connection, emphasizing that friendship and curiosity are non-negotiable for her. Tems explained that a partner who makes no effort to build a real friendship is an immediate concern for her, noting that emotional closeness should form the foundation of any romantic bond.
"Someone that's not trying to be your friend, is a red flag. Anybody that isn't curious about you, and doesn't want to know more about you," She said.
Tems added that a lack of curiosity is one of the many red flags in a relationship. For the singer, a meaningful relationship requires someone who is genuinely interested in understanding her, beyond the music, fame, and public persona.
Tems, whose real name is Temilade Openiyi, has built a reputation for being intentional and introspective, both in her art and personal life. Her comments have sparked discussion online, with many praising her emphasis on emotional depth and authenticity.
Her remarks provide a rare glimpse into her personal values, highlighting what she considers essential for anyone hoping to get close to her on a romantic level.
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